While having a conversation with a student who has a bit of a rough past but is trying to turn it around:
Me: Well, I trust each of you until you give me a reason not to.
Him: Really? You trust me? I bet you still wonder if I have a knife in my bag.
Me: Nope. You've never given me a reason not to trust you, so I will trust you until you do something otherwise.
Him (really skeptical): But how do you just trust someone? I don't trust anyone.
The whole conversation just made me sad - glad that I could be someone who sees good in him - but still, just so sad. We went on to talk about how sometimes you just need to give people the benefit of the doubt, and I know he wishes more people would do that for him. It's just tough to see a kid who made really, really (and I mean really) poor choices in the past try to make things right and hit resistance every step of the way. I wish more people would give him a chance to make things right, to make his life right, when it's clear he's trying so hard to do just that.





My name is erika-renee, but call me eka - pronounced "eh-ka." I'm suddenly somehow 32, though I still love pigtails and overalls and silly, happy things. I live north of Boston, and I'm happily married to
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